Like minded, blue water sailors together!
Ok, perhaps the title of this post doesn’t exactly flow off the tongue. Let me explain.
For the last six years my cruiser friend George and I have been putting on an event in Essex CT at the Essex Yacht Club, with the goal of offering what George would refer to as an opportunity to bring together a group of “like minded people”, folks that enjoy being on the water. Every June we have put on a two to three day event that includes a series of talks about cruising on small boats in partnership with The Seven Seas Cruising Association, SSCA.
This year, with all of that free time I have on my hands, I thought that I’d try something new and likely more complex. Silly me. Free time you ask? Did I mention that Pandora is on the hard and I am stuck in this Arctic place for the ENTIRE winter?
Well, here I am and as I write this it’s -1 degree F outside so at least I can think about sailing to warmer waters. However, if doing an event with one group wasn’t complicated enough, how about organizing an event with three? Along with my membership in SSCA, I am also a member of the Salty Dawg Sailing Association, SDSA and am a fairly new member of the Ocean Cruising Club, OCC. That’s three groups with complimentary missions so three it is.
At the risk of someone taking issue with my description of what these groups are all about, here’s how I see their missions.
SSCA is the group that years ago brought me and Brenda into the fold of cruising and living aboard for extended periods. Simply stated the group celebrates the cruising lifestyle. A simple mission and a group loaded with many folks like our friends Bill and Maureen on Kalunamoo and the Melinda and her late husband Harry of Sea Schell, that nurtured me and Brenda along the way on our first winter heading south on the Intra Coastal Waterway, ICW.
Of course, there were many more SSCA members, as we made our way south, that held out hands as we adjusted to life afloat during that first eight month run south in 2012. Maureen and Melinda, were so great and went out of their way to make Brenda feel special for her birthday that first year. That’s Bill in the background waiting for his piece of chocolate cake.
The Salty Dawg Sailing Association, a group that in only a few short years became the organizers of what is now the largest rally to the Caribbean from the US East Coast. SDSA, is dedicated to educating sailors and their crew to prepare for the rigors of offshore sailing and they do a wonderful job at it. It’s very exciting to be part of the nearly week long events in Hampton VA as skippers and crew from nearly 100 boats attend seminars, have parties and get ready to head south.
For the last two years, I have held the position of Port Captain for the rally in Antigua and let me tell you, it’s been a wonderful experience. Along with the fun I’ve had with the folks headed to Antigua, I have also made some great friends on that island. Antigua isn’t the only landfall for the group and some boats opt to go to the BVIs or the Bahamas, but I’m biased and feel that Antigua is THE PLACE to make landfall in the Caribbean. I wrote quite a few posts about Antigua but perhaps this recent post best sums up the fun we had when the fleet arrived in November. I can not stress enough how supportive everyone in Antigua has been to our rally.
The third group that is involved in this year’s event is the Ocean Cruising Club, a group that I joined just over a year ago when I was in Antigua. They celebrate blue water sailing and to join you must complete at least one ocean passage of a minimum of 1,000 miles, and you have to do it in a boat that’s less than 70 long. No 3,000 passenger cruise ship rides for their members!
Just for fun, I wrote about my joining the group last winter in this post along with a bit about the wonder of sitting on Pandora’s bow and ringing in the New Year, complete with fireworks, in historic Nelson’s Dockyard. OCC is out of the UK and has around 2,500 members worldwide, making them one of the largest groups of it’s kind.
As a side note, Brenda and I were trying to decide where in Europe to go in the spring and hearing about the annual meeting of OCC, to be held in Wales, clinched the deal. So, we’re headed to the UK for a few weeks in early April. We plan on covering a lot of ground in England, Wales and Scotland while are there so it will be great to get some local knowledge from the folks at the Wales event. So far, they have been amazingly supportive and we are getting very excited about the trip.
Part of the three day event will be held in clubhouse of the Royal Welsh Yacht Club. Among their claims to fame is that their clubhouse, located in a castle no less, is the oldest clubhouse of any yacht club in the world, originally built in 1283. However, the club isn’t nearly that old. Heck, it’s practically brand new as it was only founded in 1847. Ok, perhaps the place doesn’t look quite the same these days as in this etching below, but it’s still in a castle, which is awesome, for sure. I couldn’t come up with any decent photos so you’ll have to wait till April. I wonder if they serve mead in the bar? Hmm…
There wasn’t much yachting going on in the 13th century, more like sailing around and pillaging, I expect. One way or the other, it will be fun to visit a club that can say, with a straight face, “our home is a castle.”
These three groups share a common bond as cruisers who love to spend time on the water but their missions are unique and very complimentary. Happily, all three, along with the Essex Yacht Club have agreed to be involved.
George and I are pretty excited about this event, scheduled to run for three days, beginning with a rendezvous of members of the clubs in nearby Hamburg Cove, about a mile north of Essex. This is a beautiful perfectly protected harbor and as if that’s not enough, it’s fresh water, something that we cruisers don’t see much of.
Hamburg cove is filled with moorings. Most of the moorings are only used on weekends, when the hordes show up, but if you visit during the week you will be virtually alone in a beautiful spot.
I don’t seem to have any shots of the harbor, that I can find at least, but this shot taken by my friend Liz shows the Onrust, a reproduction of Adrian Block’s boat, the one that he cruised the area with back in the “olden days”. I expect that the members of the RWYC would remind you that Block was late in the game, nearly 400 years after the first buildings of the castle where there clubhouse is located was first built, Anyway, here’s the Onrust on the river just outside of Hamburg cove. The river is very scenic.
Just a bit farther up the river is Selden Creek, a really narrow and beautiful, cut off of the river. It can be tough to get over the bar at the entrance but once but once you are inside, it’s plenty deep and stunning. You can anchor fore and aft if you tie up to a spot on the bank. There’s an iron ring cemented into a cliff on the bank. This was our first Pandora, a SAGA 43 tied up there, way back in 2007.
As tempting as it may be to climb up the rock and jump into the water, don’t do it as it’s private property. Years ago, our son Rob broke the rules. Don’t tell anyone.
He and a friend jumped off of the “private” rock.
What goes up, must come down.
So, first we will have a rendezvous in Hamburg Cove with those who are attending the event at the Essex Yacht Club.
Then off for the one mile run to the Essex Yacht Club and the village of Essex, the home to the CT River Museum ,where the Onrust is berthed these days. She’s available for cruises on the river through the CT River Museum, also a great place to visit. I wrote about her in this post when she first arrived in the area. She’s beautifully built and worth seeing.
Essex Harbor is quite large and while there are lots of moorings for rent, there is also plenty of room to anchor on the far side of the river. This shot, from the air, is compliments of the CT River Museum.
It’s a beautiful harbor, especially in the early morning. Fresh water here too.
There’s plenty to do in Essex, after hours. A particularly popular spot is the bar in the Griswold Inn, known locally as simply, The Gris. It’s one of the oldest, or perhaps the oldest, pubs in the country, operating continuously since 1776.
My favorite event, held every Monday night at the Gris, is sea chanteys performed by the group the Jovial Crew. They always pack the house with a very colorful mix of locals and visitors. If you join in the rowdy fun, you’ll see folks wearing everything from foul weather gear, to suits and even an occasional kilt, complete with waxed mustache. Trust me, it’s way more crowded and interesting than this shot suggests, and totally worth it.
And, let’s not forget the Essex Yacht Club, where the event will be held, with Pandora conveniently out in front in this shot.
The agenda is coming along nicely and will include a program on weather routing by Chris Parker of Marine Weather Center, who’s flying up from FL to speak to us. He will talk about changes in weather forecasting and weather routing as well as some information about passages to the Caribbean. Here’s Chris at a past event when he spoke at the museum. Yes, that’s a reproduction of a really early submarine, the Turtle. It lives at the CT River Museum.
We’ll also have talks about cruising in Maine, the Bahamas and the Caribbean. All with a bent toward blue water sailing.
My friend, editor and publisher of Blue Water Sailing Magazine, George Day will also lead a number of round tables with experts on preparing for blue water sailing and passage making.
The plan is also to have a number of boats on display for boarding on the club bulkhead so that attendees can see, first hand, boats that are well fitted out for ocean voyaging. It will be fun to compare notes with the folks that are out there doing it.
I also expect that we’ll be visited by the United States Coast Guard, that’s if the government shutdown ever ends and they start getting paid again. The plan is to stage a live search and rescue demonstration with a J-Hawk chopper along with a visit by one of their cutters. This is a shot of one of their choppers that I took up at the USCG station on Cape Cod. Brenda and I were given a tour a few years ago. What an awesome machine, and one that I never hope to get plucked out of the water by. I wrote about our visit in this post.
Well, there’s still more in the planning stages but George and I are really excited about how things shaping up so stay tuned to learn more.
Oh yeah, we’ll have some great meals at EYC and Chef Michael is known as one of the best chefs at any club on Long Island Sound.
One way or the other, if you enjoy blue water passage making or dream about doing it yourself one day, you should mark your calendar for June 21st to 23rd at the Essex Yacht Club. It’s going to be great.
As George has often said, what’s better than being in the midst of a group of “like minded” people who love cruising and that’s exactly what we plan.
Like minded people who enjoy sailing on the ocean blue.



I fell in love with the traditional boats of the area. Perhaps the most iconic boat design of the region is the Guide Boat, so named because it was used for hunting and fishing by “sports” who visited the region by train from NYC to “rusticate”, beginning in the years after the close of the Civil War. These boats were crewed by the builders themselves, who spent winters building the boats and summers taking visitors on guided hunting and fishing trips. Guide boats are known for being easy to row and for being able to carry a lot of gear and as they had to as often it was a hunter, guide and any game that they may have bagged.
I got the bug to have one of these beautiful boats but couldn’t afford to buy a “real” one. Instead, I found someone who was offering a “bare hull” in Kevlar which I finished with walnut decks and cane seats. I even carved out oars to pretty exact specs. This is one sweet boat to row and very light.
The hull and fitting design were taken off of the lines of a particular boat “Ghost”, built by H.D Grant. The original boat is now in the collection of the Adirondack Museum, renamed the
The plans even specify details down to the oarlocks which I was able to purchase from a foundry that had duplicated the design to be true to the original.
This design of boats has been remarkably popular for over 100 years and there are still boats being constructed using the exact same techniques and materials. These boats are very tough to make as the materials are impossibly thin to keep the weight of the boats to a minimum given the need to portage, or hand carry, from one lake to the next.
There were many hotels dotting the lakes that featured guideboats for hire, complete with guides.
We had many wonderful times heading out on picnics on the lake and nearby St Regis Lake. Wow, what a dish. Nice boat too.
St Regis Lake was and is still today, home to many of the “Great Camps” where wealthy city dwellers would spend time “rusticating” in somewhat less than rustic conditions.
While there was eventually there was a service road to the estate, during Post’s ownership all materials and visitors arrived by water, landing at this magnificent boathouse. The largest building for the estate, above the boathouse, featured what was, at the time, the largest piece of plate glass in the area, offering a beautiful view of the lake.
Following her death in 1973, she willed the compound to NY State that used it as a retreat for a number of years. During that period it was open to the public so Brenda and I visited. The state eventually sold the property to the flamboyant Roger Jakubowski, who had made millions selling hotdogs in the NY City area.
Anyway, the estate is now owned by Hartlan Crow, a developer from Texas, who has substantially restored the camp.
Here’s a shot of them racing in 1900.
Those same boats racing 100 years later.
This is one we saw when Brenda and I visited the lake in our guideboat.
One of the original dozen that were built is now on display in the Adirondack Museum with all of the others lovingly maintained and still kept on the lake. In 2004 a new boat was built to the class so that now, once again, there are a dozen boats on the lake that race together.
When Post married for the second time, it was to E.F. Hutton and subsequently she and Hutton were the owners of
Post was also the builder and first owner of Mar-a-Lago, now owned by our current president, Trump, if somehow you missed his tweet reminding you.
Anyway, visiting Lake Clear was a big part of my early years as well as when Brenda and I were newly married. We spent many hours around the proverbial campfire at the Lathrop’s cabin nearby, first with just Rob and then Chris too.
The four of us went on outings in the Guideboat.
And sat on the dock.
In our early years together, we rented a cabin with my parents. This is them on the top of Whiteface mountain. My mom is now nearly 90 and my dad’s been gone for about 5 years. He was a great guy and I think about him every day and still miss him terribly. Personally, I think he should have been given more time for “good behavior”.
Not sure what this was all about but there were lots of shenanigans while the Osborn clan was visiting.
These days I am still very much a boat lover and spend as much time afloat as I can but then you already know that. Today we spend more of our time on salt water with the sweet kind which is limited to our time on the CT River near our home.
We had many fun weekends aboard and some still involved sake.
So, after perhaps one too many nights afloat, perhaps with more sake, somehow Brenda began to change shape, especially in one particular spot. How’d that happen?
Suddenly, we had babies on board. Both Rob and Chris were aboard by 3 months old, 25 months apart, of course.
And bigger still.
And then even a bit bigger.
We fed ducks. Isn’t that what all kids do? And always with the most nutritious white Wonder Bread, of course.
Along the way we joined in on a big celebration of
There were many catboats, a lot of catboats. These photos were taken from high up in the rigging of the
Those were great times. Then we were “post-catboat” and onto our much larger at 38′ long, a Pearson Invicta yawl Artemis. The boys were getting bigger too.
Along the way, Chris and Pat decided to get in on the action and had one of their own, Travers, the first of two for them.
The too got a bigger boat. a
Always a bit of a daredevel, Rob always wanted to go aloft. This time on a friends boat, a lovely
Frank spent time with Rob teaching him some knots. And yes, Rob was bigger then as well.
His brother Christopher wasn’t going to be left out from all that fun up the mast. Both Chris and Rob were relentless in wanting to be aloft, sometimes when we were underway, to the constant torment of their Mother.
I recall a particularly fun time aloft for the boys as I put them each up the mast while we were sailing near Martha’s Vineyard West Chop, a particularly bumpy piece of water. As we bucked along each boy was repeatedly yanked up from the water, by the motion of the boat, and dramatically dumped into the next wave. They just loved it.
There was even some time for homework, or was it just coloring?
Sure enough, summer turned to fall but that didn’t keep us from the water. And yes, you can see, if you look closely, that Christopher is wearing a safety harness under his winter coat, attached to a lifeline, to keep him safe, of course.
As you can tell, I’ve been digging again through old photos and it’s been a lot of fun thinking back on all those years sailing weekends and on summer vacations aboard a series of increasingly bigger and unfortunately, more complicated and way more expensive boats.
I am particularly focused on this because Brenda was diagnosed with melanoma three years ago after we got back from Cuba. She had noticed a small spot on her arm some months earlier,when we were in the Bahamas, that looked a lot like the spot in the photo above but it wasn’t until we returned home in May that she had a dermatologist at Yale Medicine check it out. Fortunately for Brenda, hers had only progressed slightly beyond stage one, but that diagnosis was upsetting in itself as she was told that a recurrence was perhaps 1 in four, not great odds.
As an aside, you may be wondering if being enclosed all the time is too hot in the tropics, it isn’t. Actually, the full enclosure has proven to be particularly helpful at keeping the relentless trade winds to a manageable level. However, up in the NE, where the winds are often light, we need to open things up much more.
And speaking of queasy, the muscular build of this Canadian cost guard boat gives a pretty good feel for how rough it can get out on the water there.
We brought along our car on the ferry, then a tiny diesel VW Rabbit. Remember them? That car got AMAZING mileage, about 50 mpg, on average. And, I remember that diesel was $.47 a gallon. And, during the oil embargo I sometimes bought fuel oil from a place in Bridgeport CT. I’d pull up to the heating oil place and they’d snake a hose out from the shop and fill me up. Totally illegal. Ah, those were the days. I won’t talk about my income in those years. About as low, or perhaps lower than the price of fuel. I was selling advertising for a local free newspaper.
We have always loved lighthouses and to this day go out of my way to visit them when we travel. This one, in Yarmouth is on Cape Forchu is well known and often photographed. We climbed up to the top to take in the view. The light went round and round and as it passed, you could feel the heat of the bulb as it passed, like a rotisserie. Brenda thought it was great too until the foghorn went off. It was so loud that it made us weak in the knees. To this day it still takes some coaxing to get her up in an active lighthouse.
We have only camped in a tent twice together, the first time was while we were in college, near Niagara Falls. It rained the whole time and we quickly learned that the tent was not waterproof and that didn’t even include the fact that there was no bottom to the tent, waterproof or not. Water coming in from above and below.
Not a great shot but I include this as it features our wok, perched over an open fire. We filled it with seaweed and added two lobsters. That wok has served us faithfully for all these years. We still use it nearly every day. After that trip it was really well seasoned.
One evening, or was it the only evening we camped there?, we heard someone playing bagpipes in the waning twilight. It was a remarkable moment with the forlorn music and fog wafting over the campsite.
To this day I still get a thrill when I see a schooner. On this trip we went out for a day sail on the schooner
Brenda is a prolific fiber artist, graduating from her early focus on knitting. I believe that this may have been her first sweater knitted with “real” yarn. This particular photo is one of my all time favorites.
When she was younger, but not a lot younger than she is in this photo, she didn’t have access to good yarn, or any, for that matter, and had to knit a single ball of red yarn, probably (gasp) acrylic, rip it out and knit it up again. She still has to rip things out but not because of a lack of good yarn. Quite the contrary, her “stash” is prodigious.
Pride was quite authentic down to her beautiful gig.
In the “they don’t make them like they used to” category, how about the hull of this fishing boat? Not a lot made these days of planked wood. She’s a beauty, or at least once one as she’s certainly long gone.
The tides in the Bay of Fundy are known as being among the highest in the world, as high as 40′. That’s a lot of water moving in and out of the huge Bay of Fundy, twice a day. As the tide floods the water surges in, moving a small wave ahead of it. This is referred to as a “bore” and is pretty impressive to see as the ridge of white water rolling inland across any inlet or bay.
Perhaps the most photographed harbor in Nova Scotia is
Charming fishing boats at every turn.
Where there is “quaint”, there are artists capturing the view. Peggy’s Cove is no different.
With big tides, all you have to do to haul a boat is to pull it up at high tide and let the receding tide do the rest.
Just about all of the boats we saw were still built of wood and the cottages surrounding the harbor, oh so quaint. I expect that many of these have been sold, over the years, to summer residents, known in Maine as “from away”.
We visited, of course, the local lighthouse. Looks like Brenda’s waiting for the wind to blow up her skirt. Me too…
And, speaking of breezy, the coastline here is quite rugged and windswept. I can only imagine what it is like in the dead of winter.
With the constant wind not a lot grows higher than knee high.
We went out on a day fishing boat, jigging for squid and even caught some cod.
Ready to head out to sea.
We even caught a flounder, sole, fluke, something like that. It’s flat anyway. Not sure she’d “soil” her hands on an icky fish these days.
It was on this very trip that we talked about buying a boat for the first time. There was a small boat show in Yarmouth, If I recall. I expect that this photo was taken when I said “Hey, let’s buy a boat”. “Very funny Bob, perhaps not.”
The coastline is so spectacular. Maine is very similar so we’ll see this sort of view next summer which will mark our 15th time to visit Maine aboard our own boat. I went to Maine briefly a few years ago but Brenda hasn’t been there since I retired over six years ago.
Lovely views. I wonder if it looks the same nearly 40 years later.
Ok, how about a photo of me for balance? Funny, seems that I had more hair then.
Well, it’s getting late and I need to pack for our trip to MD tomorrow to celebrate our grandaughter Tori’s birthday. She’s a real cutie.
A lot of water has gone under our keel since this photo was taken but it’s nice to know that we will soon be making memories again in Canada this coming summer.